How to Help African Children in Diaspora Succeed in Western School Systems

As African parents raising children abroad, one of the hardest things is watching our kids try to fit into a school system that feels nothing like what we grew up with.

The teaching style is different.

The discipline is different.

Even the accents are different.

And sometimes, our children who are smart, expressive, and full of life at home, start to go quiet, struggle with confidence, or lose interest in school altogether.

So how do we help them? How do we make sure they’re not just getting by but actually thriving in this new environment?

Let’s break it down.

1. First, Understand the System You're Now In:

Many of us grew up with report cards, red pens, and class rankings. In Western schools, it’s not always like that.

Depending on the country, there may be:

• Continuous assessments instead of final exams

• Less emphasis on memorization, more on discussion and creativity

• Different grade structures (e.g., Key Stages in the UK or Common Core in the US)

You need to take time to understand how your child’s school works. What subjects are most important? How are grades given? Don’t assume, it’s always okay to ask questions.

2. Build a Relationship With Your Child’s Teacher:

Many African parents believe “no news is good news” from school. But in the West, if you’re not proactive, you might miss out on important updates.

Even if your child is doing fine, teachers appreciate when parents show interest and stay involved. It also helps your child feel supported on both sides.

Foe example, You can send an email or attend the next parent-teacher meeting. Ask, “How’s my child doing socially and academically?”

3. Pay Attention to Cultural Struggles:

Your child might not complain, but they could be dealing with:

• Feeling out of place because of their accent, name, or food

• Being left out of group activities

• Quietly experiencing racism or being stereotyped

  
  

As parents, we must create a safe space at home for them to talk openly.

Please ask gentle questions like:

• “How do you feel about your school friends?”

• “Do you ever feel left out in class?”

  
  

If you notice changes in behavior like withdrawal, drop in grades, or low energy - it may be more than just school stress.

4. Get Extra Support When Needed:

The truth is, the Western school system wasn't built with African children in mind.

If your child is smart but still struggling to keep up, they may need more than what the classroom can offer.

Private tutoring can help with:

• One-on-one attention

• Culturally aware teaching

• Personalized support in subjects like Math, English, and Science.

  
  

At LOOMI, our tutors understand the African child’s experience abroad, and they use this knowledge to help your child assimilate and learn better.

5. Build Confidence Intentionally:

Western schools often reward students who speak up and take initiative in class. But not every child is naturally outspoken, especially if they’re adjusting to a new environment.

If your child is quiet or hesitant, it doesn’t mean they aren’t capable. They may just need more time and encouragement.

Try this at home:

• Let them lead family discussions or prayer

• Ask them to explain something they learned to you

• Celebrate effort, not just results

  
  

When children feel heard at home, they’re more likely to speak up in the classroom.

Final Thoughts

Parenting abroad is not easy. Parenting intentionally by making sure your child succeeds academically, emotionally, and culturally takes even more effort.

But you don’t have to do it alone.

If you’re looking for tutors who truly understand African children in the diaspora, who go beyond academics to build character and confidence, LOOMI is here for you.